feel trapped.... Hate

August 19, 2011 08:39
feel trapped....

I got married recently just 5 months ago, working in DRDO. My wife got Block Resource Teacher job recently just 3 weeks ago which was the major issue of our fight. I refused her for job since she is pregnant (4 months) and the nature of her job is to visit schools regularly and I adviced her to go to job in next seniority for which she neglected and went with their parents along with their relatives who almost fought with us and now she has joined in her native. Its almost over and she just called me twice after that for which out of anger I didnt respond well.

Then she didnt call me for 5 days and I traced her friends no. and tried to realise its their parents and relatives fault since they did everything in a rash mode with no respect for us. I also came to know that her parents and relatives are in a plan to get divorce, which when I say to her is not able to accept and saying they are not like that. But its a true fact which we got this info from one of their relatives. Due to disrespect from their side I decided to stay in a lodge and said to my wife that I'll come only on diwali and stay till evening and leave and she too accepted. But her Dad after knowing this scolded me in bad words saying that I should stay in their home or else I need not come. I told everything to my wife's friend.

Her co-workers and friends adviced about her immaturity and asked to talk with me frequently which she is not doing. After diwali she talked with me on Saturday and said we can speak weekly once in order to avoid disopinon among us. I explained clearly to my wife that job is not a problem which U joined inspite of my refusal, but Ur parents are only trying to separate Us. But she is so ignorant and not realising her parents true thoughts. She is not talking freely with me. Till now she has not called me and replying to any of my msg. I dont know whats gonna happen? I want my wife and child safe with me forever and I am sincerely trying for her transfer, since I am in Chennai.

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